Archive for June, 2008

June 17th, 2008

unChristian Challenges Today’s Church With Unsettling Research

I have a stack in my office that is entirely dedicated to books I need to read. This stack rarely shortens because as I read one book another replaces it in the pile. David Kinnaman and Gabe Lyons’ book unChristian has been in that pile for at least six months, and I finally picked it up last week. I am so glad I did.

The premise of this book is three years of research on how outsiders of the Christian faith view Christianity. More specifically, it’s about the Buster (born between 1965 and 1983) and Mosaic (born between 1984 and 2002) generations and their perceptions of the church. The results are frightening. An overwhelming majority of this demographic has a negative impression of Christianity in America. They view us as hypocritical, too focused on getting converts, antihomosexual, sheltered, too political, and judgmental. Does this come as a surprise?

Maybe to my parents’ and grandparents’ generations, but it certainly doesn’t surprise me. As a twentysomething, I’ve long struggled with my faith, my politics, and my culture and watched many of my friends from high school and college do the same. Many of them no longer practice their Christian faith, and I surmise that some of them have the same impressions of Christianity as many others in the country. I sure do.

Once Kinnaman and Lyons present the six broad themes found in their research, they dedicate a chapter to each impression using theme-specific research and interviews to illustrate how outsiders feel about Christians. Once they’re sure readers understand the problem of the theme, they address how Christians can work to change those perceptions, and they offer a new perception to work toward:

  • Hypocritical
    Perception: Christians say one thing but live something entirely different.
    New perception: Christians are transparent about their flaws and act first, talk second.
  • Too focused on getting converts
    Perception: Christians are insincere and concerned only with converting others.
    New perception: Christians cultivate relationships and environments where others can be deeply transformed by God.
  • Antihomosexual
    Perception: Christians show contempt for gays and lesbians.
    New perception: Christians show compassion and love to all people, regardless of their lifestyle.
  • Sheltered
    Perception: Christians are boring, unintelligent, old-fashioned, and out of touch with reality.
    New perception: Christians are engaged, informed, and offer sophisticated responses to the issues people face.
  • Too political
    Perception: Christians are primarily motivated by a political agenda and promote right-wing politics.
    New perception: Christians are characterized by respecting people, thinking biblically, and finding solutions to complex issues.
  • Judgmental
    Perception: Christians are prideful and quick to find faults in others.
    New perception: Christians show grace by finding good in others and seeing their potential to be Christ followers.

These existing perceptions and new perceptions really challenged me. In light of Jerry Bridges’ Respectable Sins , a book my small-group Bible study has been based on this spring, many of the existing perceptions are a result of the sins we tolerate in the church and in our lives. Personally, I’m guilty of all of them—many just in the last week! Even before reading unChristian, God had been challenging me to build more relationships with outsiders, to engage the culture, and to be much slower to judge others (especially when I’m driving), and now I’m starting to see the bigger picture and how my personal faith is affecting and being affected by outsiders and Christianity.

Would I recommend this book? Absolutely, but with a condition. If you are a Christ-follower, engage the book by prayerfully measuring every paragraph against God’s Word. Sometimes we latch on to a book or a song and esteem it as Truth without holding it next to Scripture. Prayerfully ask God to show you your own heart and how you can begin changing the perception of Christianity in America.

June 16th, 2008

Ten People Who Should Have Their Own Blogs

I read a lot of blogs: local blogs, family blogs, friend blogs, professional blogs, fitness blogs. I could go on, but you get the picture. I’m of the opinion that there’s a place on the Web for everyone, and the blogosphere is a great place to start; specifically, here are ten people who need to have their own blogs:

  1. Moms-to-be
  2. Parents
  3. Small-business owners
  4. Missionaries
  5. Students
  6. Military service people
  7. Ministers
  8. Weight-losers
  9. Freelance professionals
  10. Reporters

Why these ten people? What’s the connection? Well, they have more in common than you think:

  • Many of these people need to communicate with large groups of people (i.e. family, friends, customers, clients, etc.) at one time, and a blog allows them to communicate as often as necessary without filling up email in boxes.
  • Many of these people have lives that are changing pretty regularly, and a blog lets them document and share those changes.
  • Many of these people live away from their core support groups, and a blog lets them connect with their friends and family without being geographically close.

Are you on my list? Do you have a blog? If not, what’s stopping you? To get started, check out these Web sources:

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June 16th, 2008

Triathlon Training: Week 2

Somehow, I managed to not run at all this week. Not so good. It’s hard for me to get up and work out before work two morning in a row, so if I swim in the mornings, the next day I can take a cycling class and strength train in the evenings. I have good intentions to run in the evenings on the days I swim, but I’ve been reading so much, that I don’t want to put my books down and get out of the house. We’ll see if I can remedy that next week.

Monday, June 9, 2008

  • Workout Type. Lap swim
  • Route. YMCA indoor pool
  • Feeling. :)
  • Time. 40 minutes
  • Distance. 1000 yards (20 laps)
  • Pace per mile. N/A
  • Additional notes. Good workout today. Started with an easy warm up of six breast/side stroke laps. Main workout included two sets of 1 free, 1 breast, and 1 side laps + two sets of 2 free, 1 breast, 1 side. Cooled down with a lap of back stroke. Met benchmark no. 4: 2 free laps nonstop. No creepy weird guys this morning.

Tuesday, June 10, 2008

Third wedding anniversary. I wanted to get up early and go to cycling class, but getting up before work to work out two days in a row is proving difficult, if not impossible. Told myself I would run after I got home from dinner, but we put in a movie and sat on the couch. No workout today.

Wednesday, June 11, 2008

  • Workout Type. Lap swim
  • Route. YMCA indoor pool
  • Feeling. :|
  • Time. 40 minutes
  • Distance. 1000 yards (20 laps)
  • Pace per mile. N/A
  • Additional notes. I so did not want to get out of bed this morning, and my workout wasn’t great. What was "easy" on Monday was really difficult today. When I free stroke, I find myself focusing on too much at once: flutter kicking, arm rotation, head position, and of course, breathing. There’s so much I feel is wrong with my technique that I don’t know how to focus on just one thing. Strength trained at home in the evening.

Thursday, June 12, 2008

  • Workout Type. Cycling class
  • Route. YMCA
  • Feeling. :)
  • Time. 42 minutes
  • Distance. 9.2 miles
  • Pace per mile. 4:30ish
  • Additional notes . Strength trained before class and ran two laps after class. Had to focus quite a bit to push through the hard portions, but I love seeing how hard I can push myself!

Friday, June 13, 2008

  • Workout Type. Lap swimming
  • Route. YMCA indoor pool
  • Feeling. :)
  • Time. 35 minutes
  • Distance. 900 yards (18 laps)
  • Pace per mile. N/A
  • Additional notes. Checked benchmark #5 (1 breast/side lap + 2 free laps). I wanted so badly to swim longer, but there was lightning in the area, and apparently, you still have to get out of the pool even if it’s indoors. I had already postponed my swim one hour, and I didn’t want to wait around to finish off my workout. Call it an easy day.
June 15th, 2008

Top Ten Reasons I Love My Dad

Today is Father’s Day. I made the call to my dad this afternoon—you all know that I’m a horrible card sender. And I figured I should write up a little post about my dad because a) I love him, b) he’s awesome, and c) I wrote one for Mom on Mother’s Day. I can’t play favorites, you know.

  1. Dad put a roof over our heads. Dad worked away from home during the week, which had to be rough, but he did it to make sure his family was taken care of. Not only that, he put a lot of the finishing touches on our house to make sure we were warm and safe while he was gone.
  2. Dad broke the vacuum. This is one of my favorite memories of Dad. We still lived in our house in town, so Jacob and I were pretty little, and I think we were frantically cleaning the house because grandma and grandpa were coming over. Dad grabbed Mom’s prized Kenmore vacuum cleaner (now that I have one of my own, I understand why it’s so special) and started vacuuming the living room. Dad always knows how to make housework fun, and this time, he started chasing Jacob and I with the vacuum cleaner, pretending that it was a monster trying to eat our toes. While Jacob and I hopped on the couch to escape, Dad bounced the machine up and down making chomping noises and broke the vacuum cleaner. Dad was in trouble with Mom! That was the best part!
  3. Dad introduced me to some of my favorite movies. Young Frankenstein, Captain Horatio Hornblower, Operation Petticoat, Memphis Belle. I could list more, but the general theme of movies I love watching with my dad either involve war or Gregory Peck. And when I was a teenager, Dad figured out that certain movies could draw me to the couch for some guaranteed time with his daughter. Why else would a grown man watch Casper on a Sunday afternoon?
  4. Dad taught me how to hunt. OK, I don’t really hunt anymore, but Dad taught me how to shoot and clean a gun, how to sit in a deer stand very quietly until a deer comes along, how to gut a deer, and how to process deer meat. Maybe this isn’t so important in the grand scheme of things, but Dad and I got to spend a lot of time together reloading rifle ammo, shooting in the backyard, and hanging out during deer season. It’s still one of my favorite times of year.
  5. Dad introduced me to some of my favorite music. Songs by Juice Newton and Mary Chapin Carpenter came on the radio last week, and I was able to fully sing along with those songs namely because Dad was a believer in the repeat button on our Suburban tape deck. No song was safe from being repeated time after time if he liked it, and I have obtained many of those songs from iTunes so I can repeat them whenever I want, too.
  6. Dad is my resident car mechanic. Most dads are in some form or another, but my dad is a professional mechanic, and it takes an extra dose of patience to come home and work on your personal car (or your daughter’s) on the weekend. Because I live 100 miles from home now, I don’t turn to him as often as I used to, but in college, Dad made a handful of trips to Springfield to make repairs. And he’s always available for car repair advice when I have no idea what’s wrong with my car. And he put up with my near-cursing one early morning my sophomore of college when I repeatedly called him while attempting to change a vandalized tire.
  7. Dad gave me an appreciation for red meat. A few weeks ago, a friend of mine who’s only known me a year or so asked me if I was a meat eater. Uh, you could say that. Dad’s first stop on my way home from the hospital was not the convenience store for diapers; he took Mom and I to a favorite steak house. While I couldn’t appreciate a good steak then, he taught me to enjoy an excellent prime rib as early as he could afford it knowing that once I had a good steak, I wouldn’t turn back. And I didn’t.
  8. Dad taught me how to drive. I’m not sure how old I was when I had my first driving lesson, but I started off on the tractor sitting on Dad’s lap. Then I graduated to the John Deere mower where I had to mow our yard to perfection (without running over any garden hoses) before calling it finished. Dad gave me my first lesson in what would eventually be my truck when I was in middle school; I drove that truck until my senior year. Dad taught me to drive in the city and with semis on the road, too, and I am the confident driver I am today because of what he taught me.
  9. Dad always let me mooch on his Diet Coke. Somewhere there’s a picture of me as a toddler sitting in my dad’s lap, holding his bottle of Diet Coke with my feet and hands, and drinking from it. Up until I got married, if Dad had a Coke, I was mooching from it. (Dad, know that now I mooch from Chris.) No beverage was safe from my reach, and particularly vulnerable were the freshly-poured drinks sitting on the kitchen cabinet that would mysteriously “disappear” when Dad turned around to put away the soda bottle.
  10. Dad never missed a Friday night wrestling match. Dad worked away from home during the week, so his homecoming on Friday nights was pretty special. After his shower and before dinner, Jacob and I usually challenged Dad to a wrestling match in the dining room. There was a lot of tickling and jumping and hollering—and sometimes the cat got caught, too—but that’s how we knew the weekend had officially started.

Yep, my dad is pretty cool. I could go on, but this is a top-ten list. I love you, Dad!

June 14th, 2008

Saturday Spam Haiku | 14 June 2008

I regularly have more than 6,000 messages in my Gmail spam folder, and while it’s fun to see how high the number gets, it’s more fun to turn spam into haiku! Don’t you agree?

Largest selection
See the transcript for details
Great wholesale prices

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June 13th, 2008

For-the-Love-of-Links Friday | 13 June 2008

I haven’t done this for a month, but here’s the best of what I’ve been reading. Consider this your summer reading…

Who said summer reading wasn’t fun? Check out what else I’ve enjoyed on my Google Reader Shared Items and Delicious pages.

June 12th, 2008

Where Is Sarah?

Blogging around here has been a little hit and miss lately, huh? There’s a number of reasons for that. I’m not making excuses, but I thought I might tell you like it is.

First of all, I’m incredibly boring. Maybe you read this blog and think I live a glamorous life, but let me tell you that most of what I do every day is not worth blogging about. Yes, I’m training for a triathlon, but I can only talk so much about that. Yes, I work for a church, but we all know there’s no titillating tidbits I can write about. Yes, I have two crazy cats , but I don’t want to be that girl all the time.

Second, it is summer. No, I’m not in school anymore, but we all know summer changes the rhythm of our lives for a few months. The only show worth watching on TV is So You Think You Can Dance , so I’ve drastically reduced my TV watching and picked up several books. You all know that I’m a huge reader, and this is the first time in a while that I’ve picked up a handful of books that I don’t want to put down. This spring, I did a lot of my blogging while watching the many TV shows I follow, so since I’m down to one, my blogging time has been cut.

That said, I’ll be reducing my blog posts a bit this summer. You’ll still get For-the-Love-of-Links Fridays , Saturday Spam Haiku , and triathlon training updates, and I’ll be reviewing all those books I’m reading. You can expect three or four posts a week from me for the next few months until fall TV comes back on and I’m blogging in the evenings again.

June 9th, 2008

You Don’t Need to be a Designer to Create a Custom Color Scheme

When it comes to blogging, nothing is more difficult for me than design, and when it comes to design, nothing is more difficult for me than picking a color scheme. Thankfully, though, I am married to a designer who is little by little teaching me to think like a designer. In the not-so-distant past, I decided to mix up the colors on my personal blog, and Chris used the opportunity to teach me the method he uses for generating a color scheme. Very little color theory was involved, which I was thankful for because I tried reading his color theory textbook, and I couldn’t get past page two. If you’re a blogger who isn’t a designer, I can imagine you have a hard time picking color schemes, too, so let’s use my personal blog as a case study and walk through his process.

We started at FashionTrendSetter.com (FTS). Yes, this is a site for the fashion industry, but on it they forecast color trends for upcoming fashion seasons, so rather than having to pick five or six colors from the entire color spectrum (millions of colors), we worked with the 24 colors for Spring/Summer 2009. We also opened up the Color Scheme Generator (CSG) at WellStyled.com, which would supplement our color choices and show us where colors were falling on the color wheel. With those two resources, we chose six colors:

1. Base color.
My favorite color is orange, so naturally, I wanted orange to be the main color on my blog, but I also wanted my blog to look professional and feminine. In the lineup of oranges below, the second from the right was my favorite, but a color scheme conjured from that bright orange wouldn’t yield something that was professional and feminine, so I chose the second from the left—a color on the FTS list named Striped. I used this color in my blog’s navigation, headings, and links.



When you choose your base color, you should consider the purpose of your blog and the adjectives associated with that purpose. My professional and feminine blog won’t use the same orange that a sporty and masculine blog would. Bright colors are intense and clean, medium colors are soothing and subtle, and deep colors are rich and elegant. What do you want your blog’s colors to say about your blog?

2. Neutral(s).
I put six neutrals from the FTS list next to Striped and really liked the dark brown next to it, but since dark brown isn’t a very feminine color, I chose the pale tan, which is named Side, next to the dark brown and put the dark brown on the back burner. I used Side as my blog’s background color and the dark brown for its paragraph text. Neutrals are useful for background and border colors, too.



3. Complementary colors.
This is where color scheming gets complicated fun. Complementary colors are useful for secondary information on your blog: hovering links, lower-level headings, bullet images, comments, etc. And Chris likes his color schemes to have three complementary colors; the first is usually a lighter version (without being neutral) of the base color, the second is a complement to the base color, and the third is a lighter version (without being neutral) of the second.

Using the Color Scheme Generator, I entered the RGB value of Striped (#ED764E) to start finding complements. For each color system (monochromatic, contrast, triad, tetrad, and analogic), the CSG provides five variations (pastel, dark pastel, light pastel, contrast, and pale), so I had plenty of complements to choose from. Let’s look at my options according to each color system:

Monochromatic. Monochromes are made by adding white or black to your base color, but add too much white or black to your base color, and the monochrome system becomes neutral. Next to Striped and Side, the five monochrome complements don’t add enough variation to my color scheme.

Contrast. Remember learning the color wheel in grade school? Contrasting colors are exactly opposite one another on the wheel or 180 degrees apart. Next to Striped and Side, the five contrast complements provide some options that don’t overpower Striped because they are subdued.

Triad. Back to the color wheel: Triad complements form a triangle with the base color. If the base color is at 0 degrees, possible triads range from 120 to 179 degrees and from 181 to 240 degrees. Next to Striped and Side, the five triad options add variation to my color scheme but start to make it look too primary with the bright blues and greens.

Tetrad. Return to the color wheel. Tetrad complements form a rectangle with the base color. Start with the base color, add its contrasting color, and add another set of contrasting colors from anywhere on the wheel. Next to Striped and Side, the five tetrad complements (essentially the triad colors plus some yellows) start to make my color scheme neutral again.

Analogic. This is our last time at the color wheel. Analogic complements are neighbors of the base color. If the base color is at 0 degrees, possible analogics range from 1 to 60 degrees and from 300 to 359 degrees. Next to Striped and Side, my analogic options could make my scheme very feminine and bright—but maybe too bright. I’m not much of a girly girl.



Final

All of these color systems generated great potential color schemes; my decision really came down to what the new color scheme would say about me and my blog. Remember, I wanted it to be professional and feminine, but I wanted it to be feminine without being girly. I chose two complements from the contrast system and one complement close to some analogic colors, which you can see below:



From left to right, the colors are Striped, Side, Bar, Hyphen, Stave, and Row, all of which come from the Classic palette for the season. I really have no idea where designers come up with those names, but I guess it doesn’t sound as cool if you say the color theme uses peaches and teals, huh?

To review, using resources like FashionTrendSetter.com makes the color scheming process simpler because they narrow the entire color spectrum to a more manageable set of colors. And we’ve chosen colors that are guaranteed to be around a few years and that can be seen in other industries. (As I drafted this post, I took a break and went shopping with a friend, and I noticed how many of the colors from FTS are actually in stores—and my closet—right now!) With a manageable set of colors in hand and the CSG, it’s much easier to choose base, neutral, and complementary colors without knowing much about color theory and without having a designer hold my hand.

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June 8th, 2008

Triathlon Training: Week 1

This was my first week of triathlon training! Even so, I had to take it a little easy this week because I had a 5K race on Saturday. Overall, I was pleased with what I accomplished. I must be more deliberate about stretching my knees after running and cycling, and I need to work on cool downs in the pool. I’ve also been told to practice transitioning from cycling to running, so for future cycling classes, I’m going to wrap up with a short run. Here are the week’s details:

Monday, June 2, 2008

  • workout type: lap swim
  • route: YMCA indoor pool
  • feeling: :|
  • time: 30′
  • distance: 550 yards
  • pace per mile: N/A
  • additional notes: First workout with goggles and swim cap. Was able to see underwater, so I could swim in a straight line. Workout pattern: breast stroke lap, free stroke lap, side stroke lap, free stroke lap. Took a 30 second break at the end of each pool length (25 yards). Hope to eventually limit 30 second breaks to the end of each lap (50 yards). Heart continued to race until the end of my shower. Need to work on my cool downs.

Tuesday, June 3, 2008

  • workout type: cycling class
  • route: YMCA cycling area
  • feeling: :|
  • time: 55′
  • distance: 10.1 miles
  • pace per mile: 5:27
  • additional notes: Hadn’t attended the Tuesday night cycling class yet. Instructor Scarlett is filling in for regular instructor for about a month; her class was crazy hard, but of the Y’s cycling instructor’s I like her best. Trying to better my cycling technique: keeping heels down, pulling up with my quads, toes pointed slightly in, etc. At some point, I need to take my bike for a spin and actually ride outside. (Which means I must get a helmet, two new tires, and the back hatch of the Blazer fixed. Ugh.)

Wednesday, June 4, 2008

  • workout type: easy run
  • route: Forest Park subdivision
  • feeling: :)
  • time: 35′ ish
  • distance: 3 miles
  • pace per mile: 11:30ish
  • additional notes: My times are pretty rough because my watch’s battery died. And I’m sort of holding out for a new Garmin. This was mostly a God-what-do-you-want-me-to-do-with-my-life run, so I wasn’t concentrating on time. Instead, I was thinking through career stuff. My legs were pretty tired from cycling the day before, so I took it pretty easy. Except for the last 200 yards or so; I’ll try to finish every run with a little kick.

Friday, June 6, 2008

  • workout type: lap swim
  • route: YMCA pool
  • feeling: :)
  • time: 30;
  • distance: 900 yards
  • pace per mile: N/A
  • additional notes: Pool was busy this afternoon. Had to share my lane first with a guy who was obviously a swimmer and was not crazy about sharing a lane with a novice. Why do manly-swimmer types always have huge tattoos on their thighs, anyway? After he left, I had to share a lane with an older gentleman who wore these horrible Speedos: black with a coral-colored floral print. And swimming with him was like swimming with a walrus; every time I swam past him I was afraid I was going to get smacked in the face. Checked benchmarks one through three off my list (no. three was swimming 2 laps nonstop: one breast/side + one free).

Saturday, June 7, 2008

  • workout type: 5K race
  • route: Running of the Squirrels, Marionville, MO
  • feeling: :)
  • time: 33′22
  • distance: 3.1 miles
  • pace per mile: 10:46
  • additional notes: I did not see one white squirrel; therefore, I think this race should be renamed the Running of the People. Knee tried to lock up in the third mile, so I had to walk on and off, which sucked because I really wanted to run the full race. I’ll have a full race recap with pictures in a day or two.
June 7th, 2008

Saturday Spam Haiku | 7 June 2008

I regularly have more than 6,000 messages in my Gmail spam folder, and while it’s fun to see how high the number gets, it’s more fun to turn spam into haiku! Don’t you agree?

Nature attraction
I find you interesting
I hope you’ll reply

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