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April 7th, 2009

11 Places to Find Twitter Friends

Nothing is sadder than a new Twitter account that doesn’t have any friends, and today I’m going to help you remedy your wallflower ways. This is weird, but on Twitter, it takes friends to make friends. Sort of like middle school. Anyway, here are 11 places you can find existing friends and make new ones on Twitter.

Twitter.com

Twitter actually has a pretty decent people finder, which can be accessed by clicking ‘Find People’ from your Twitter.com home page. On it there are four ways to find people:

  1. Find on Twitter. Search for people by user name or by real name. Particularly useful if you have someone in mind or already know their user name.
  2. Find on other networks. Search for people by syncing Twitter accounts with email addresses in your Gmail, Yahoo, AOL, Hotmail, or MSN accounts. A good use of your contacts lists stored in these accounts. Actually, I think it would be cool if you sync Twitter with your Facebook friends, but that will probably never happen.
  3. Invite by email. If you can’t find friends, invite new friends to join. Especially useful if you’re the only one in your town who is on Twitter. Hard to imagine, I know, but when my mom joined, she was merely the third person in my hometown tweeting.
  4. Suggested users. Follow these popular Twitter users as recommended by Twitter. Getting on this list is like winning homecoming queen in high school. Unless you’re really pretty and really popular, it won’t happen. But some of these people are worth following.

Twitter Search

Twitter Search also allows you to search by some pretty strict parameters, and this is useful if you’re looking for other tweeple who are in your geographical area or are interested in the same things you are.

  1. Search by region. Enter a destination and select your search radius. I search by region when looking for new tweeple in the Springfield, Missouri area, so I can add them as @tweeples_guide friends.
  2. Search by keyword. Direct Twitter to search by exact words or phrases, tell Twitter to search for any words you provide, or exclude the words you’re not looking for. I find this useful when I’m looking for other bloggers. I search for any key blogging words that bloggers often use in their tweets (i.e. blogger, wordpress, post, etc.).
  3. Search by hashtag. Similar to the keyword search, but specifically searches for words with the # in front of them. (Vocab lesson of the day: the pound sign also goes by the name octothorpe.) In Springfield, we use the #SGF hashtag to identify which Springfield we’re talking about. SGF are our airport initials.

Other Places

While I often use the sources listed above because they are quick and easy, the sources below tend to turn up better quality tweeple even though they’re not as speedy.

  1. Blogs. I read a lot of blogs. So many. And if I like a blogger well enough, more than likely, they are going to be a fun person to follow on Twitter. If the blogger knows what they’re doing, they’ll have a link to their Twitter profiles on their blog’s home page.
  2. Twitter profiles. While it’s totally inappropriate to go to someone else’s profile (especially someone you don’t know personally) and start following all of their friends, the Twitter profiles of your close friends are great resources to find other people you might like to get to know.
  3. Mentions (formerly @replies). In my circle of tweeple, we tend to mention one another in our conversations quite a bit. If they start mentioning someone I’m not following and engaging them in conversation, chances are that I know them and will get a kick out of following them, too.
  4. WeFollow.com. This “user-powered Twitter directory” allows tweeple to tag their Twitter accounts with keywords and lumps like-minded tweeple according to those keywords.

Now that I’ve provided 11 places for you to find Twitter friends, there is no excuse for not joining the party. And while you’re in the twitterverse, if you find new places where new friends are plentiful, leave ‘em in the comments!

April 6th, 2009

Brilliantly Creative? Gigantic Idiot? You Decide.

Today is the first of 31 Days to Build a Better Blog Challenge, as presented by Problogger.net, and I’m really excited to see how much better I can build my blog in the next month. Today’s assignment? Write an elevator pitch for my blog.

Doh! Is it a good or bad sign that I’m already stuck on my homework, and it’s merely the first day of class? Regardless of the answer, I’m going to hammer this thing out. My first method of attack is revisiting the Cynthia Heimel quote that was the impetus for this blog’s title:

When in doubt, make a fool of yourself. There is a microscopically thin line between being brilliantly creative and acting like the most gigantic idiot on earth. So what the hell, leap.

Frankly, I think this is a great start to an elevator pitch because it sums up my blog quite well. Yes, I do tend to make a fool of myself. Yes, some of what I write is brilliantly creative. Yes, some of what I write makes me look like a gigantic idiot. My audience determines where the microscopically thin line falls. I try to leap once a day, or at least several times a week. And I enjoy a little profanity with my coffee.

Darren’s ideas for writing an elevator pitch suggest that my blog should have a niche (i.e. solve a problem, meet a need, ask a question, etc.), but what do I do when the niche is me? I call upon Akhila Kolisetty who wrote Forget All the Rules and Write What You Love today at BrazenCareerist.com:

Just write for the hell of it. Write whatever comes into your mind at that moment. Hit publish whenever you want, even if it’s 3am and no one’s “listening.” Write what you love, what you care about and are most passionate about. And most importantly, be yourself. Don’t confine yourself to a “niche” or a “brand.” If you’re itching to write about something outside your brand, just do it. Stop worrying what others will think of you. Because people want to learn about and debate the issues, but also they want to get to know you – who you really are. So if you’re not yourself, and if you’re not writing what you love, you’re definitely not going to enjoy blogging or make the most of it. And what’s the point of spending so much time and effort on something that you don’t genuinely love?

Truly, this is what I do on AFOM. It’s just that I love writing. Gloria Steinem said it best when she said, “Writing is the only thing that, when I do it, I don’t feel I should be doing something else.” Sometimes my love of writing manifests itself in loves for blogging or the latest movie or a good book or running or videos of kittens on YouTube, and my readers never know what they’re going to get. Regardless, writing is my cathardic out; it’s how I purge all-consuming musings, so I can make room for more thoughts. It’s how I make sense of myself and my world.

Here’s what I have so far:

Hi, I’m Sarah Jo. I write A Fool of Myself, a semi-personal blog that allows me to make a fool of myself on a semi-daily basis. Sometimes I’m brilliantly creative. Other times I’m a gigantic idiot. My readers determine where the microscopically thin line between the two falls. I write about what I love, and on any given day that can range from blogging to running, from good books to kittens.

I definitely like that I’ve used the foundation quote to shape the elevator pitch. I also like how I’ve given my readers the job of deciding where that thin line falls. I have an image of a Fool-of-Myself Meter at the bottom of each post that allows readers to rate the post as brilliantly creative or gigantic idiot. That would be hilarious.

Darren is correct, having this pitch written down gives me direction for my blog and will help me continue to shape it. I can already think of a few places I need to implement this pitch or some version of it. It’s definitely going to show up in this blog’s tagline and on the About page, and I’m thinking I’ll change the pure-genious category to brilliantly-creative and the w00t category to gigantic-idiot because that’s sort of how they’re already functioning. Thoughts anyone?

 

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