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April 15th, 2009

Whirlwind Easter Weekend with Family and Friends

I was off of work for Good Friday last Thursday and Friday, so I ventured home to hang out with my family in Clinton. Chris couldn’t come because he had to work; I missed him but still had fun. On Thursday afternoon, Mom and I putzed around town and ran errands. We stocked up on Easter candy for the weekend at Walmart before heading home to make dinner. I had requested gumbo, and somehow I got conned into making it for myself. I spent a better part of the afternoon brewing it up for the rest of the family.

We didn’t do much Thursday evening. Mom and I watched the new episode of CSI, and I worked on a crochet project. Friday morning, Mom and I slept in long enough for Dad to drive all the way to KC for work, get rained out, and drive back home. He decided to get a hair cut, and the rest of us met him in town for lunch at Pizza Glen. I’m sure this pizza isn’t the best in the world, but I have a special place for it in my heart. I love their pizza!

After lunch, Dad and Jacob worked on my Blazer in my Grandpa Norman’s shop. The plan was to have Dad replace my rotors because a mechanic in Springfield told me that the rotors had so much wear that they could no longer be grinded smooth. Dad and my brother Jacob got the tires off and discovered that my rotors were fine. We measured the difference in width between the new and the old rotors: 15/1000th of an inch! So much for the self-touting “Christian” mechanic I went to. This is the fourth industry where I’ve experienced Christians as the worst people to work with: design, construction, car repair, and food service. Not happy.
Dad and Blazer in Grandpa's Shop

We made good of the day, and Dad changed the oil in the Blazer instead. O’Reilly’s took the rotors back, no questions asked. While Dad and Jacob were wrapping up, I shot the other end of Grandpa’s shop. I know it looks gross and dirty and about to fall down at any moment (which isn’t far from the truth), but I have some found memories of “helping” Grandpa and Dad with their projects and “working” in the office.

Grandpa's Shop

After we finished with my car, Mom, Dad, and I went to Calhoun to visit the babies on my Aunt Kathy and Uncle Martin’s farm. This first picture is of my dad holding one of the baby goats. They were so inquisitive and curious; they reminded me a bit of Mowgli.

Dad and Baby Goat

Again, here’s Dad. This time he’s with Brassy and her new colt. Brassy is sort of bossy, so we had to be careful with her in the pen. Daffy, Kathy’s other mare who foaled with week was also in the pen; I have some video of her and her colt that I hope to put on YouTube this week.

Dad, Brassy, and Baby

And here is another fun shot of the baby goats. They were not camera shy whatsoever.

Baby Goats

Mom got a hold of Brassy, too.

Mom and Brassy

And this is my favorite picture! It has the funniest story! Aunt Kathy took me and Mom into the barn where the kittens were, and while she was looking for the other litter, Mom and I checked out this basket of cats. It was dark, so I couldn’t tell exactly what I was looking at, but I said, “Uh, I don’t think, I mean, this isn’t a cat.” What I saw were two sets of ears that were not in any way kitten ears. They were bunny ears! Goldie, the momma cat, had evidently found them and adopted them. We figured she was saving them for dinner, but she was letting them nurse, and they were in perfectly good health!

Kittens and Itty Bitty Baby Bunnies

After the farm, we went home for dinner and hung out with my brother and his girlfriend Brandi. We watched Casino Royale and Quantum of Solace while playing Sorry! and Clue. Mom says it’s happened before, but this was the first time I remember Dad playing board games with us. We had to teach him how to play Sorry!, but he caught on quickly and had to say “sorry” to Mom quite a bit.

Saturday morning, I met my best friend Jenny and her boyfriend Matt at Ben Franklin’s Coffee House in town. I worked there when I was in high school and have a few fond memories of that place. We drank our coffee and ate our pastries and chatted for about an hour before heading our separate ways.

For lunch, we piled into the Suburban and headed to Martin City for some famed Fiorella’s Jack Stack barbeque. I live for this stuff. Seriously, when I die, doctors will find Jack Stack’s BBQ sauce flowing through my veins. I’m sure there are plenty of other fantastic restaurants in Kansas City, but I will never know because eating at Jack Stack is mandatory when I go to KC. We split a rack-and-a-half of onion rings, and I ordered a Hatfield sandwich with ham and turkey. Yum!

After lunch, we headed back home, taking a detour in Harrisonville to stop at the Family Center (for martin houses) and then to Chilhowee to see the school where Jacob will be working as an ag teacher next fall. And after all that, we were still too full to get dessert at Dairy Queen, so we went home. Once packed, I hit the road again and headed back to Nixa. And that was my whirlwind weekend at home!

And lest I leave Easter Sunday out, that was quite the day, too! I had 12 kids in my KidLife class, but we all survived. For lunch, my in-laws brought sandwiches, and then we played Canasta for a few hours. And there was lots of coffee drinks and desserts, too. I crashed on the couch around 5 PM and slept for 2.5 hours! I was so tired!

January 20th, 2009

There Are Days I Really Love My Job…

And today was one of them.

Most of you know that my job is pretty straightforward. Nothing new happens very often. Everything can be very mundane. I actually look forward to our staff meetings, if that tells you anything. But today was awesome. Allow me to explain.

We ordered lunch for 15-20 men for an event we’re hosting next Monday, but the food came today due to a mix up in the order. So it was 10:30 this morning, and we have a pulled-pork lunch to rid ourselves of. What to do?

Thankfully, my boss was on the same page as I was, called the caterer to tell him we were keeping and paying for the food, and sent me to invite the construction crew who is working on the intersection by the church over for a hot lunch. When I opened the door to the construction office, the supervisor totally expected me to complain about something (because that’s what usually happens when someone off the street comes by) and was completely flabbergasted that we wanted to share our catering mix-up with him and his crew.

I have a soft spot in my heart for construction workers because my dad is one, and I’ve wanted to do something for this crew since the project started last fall. I guess I remember the stories Dad told when I lived at home about random things he got to do because he was in the right place at the right time. Like the day when his boss got the entire crew into the Nascar press tent for brunch at a Kansas Speedway event because the boss did a favor for someone in the press (or at the Speedway. I can’t remember the specific details).

So the crew of seven came over for lunch, two in a loader (which Dennis and Lane offered to drive), to eat our pulled pork. It was good to talk with them a bit and give them a hot lunch on a cold day. And it was good to have something completely out of the ordinary to do this afternoon.

August 7th, 2008

Happy Anniversary!

I have no idea why it didn’t occur to me yesterday to wish my parents a happy anniversary on my blog. Instead I sent them an ecard, which I know is lame, but I suck at sending real cards in the mail. OK, pretty much I suck at anything that involves snail mail (or phone calls).

Anyway, yesterday, August 6, my parents celebrated their 31st wedding anniversary, which I must say is quite the accomplishment! Congratulations!

P.S. And shout outs to Blake and Debbie and Ben and Gina who also celebrated their anniversaries yesterday!

June 15th, 2008

Top Ten Reasons I Love My Dad

Today is Father’s Day. I made the call to my dad this afternoon—you all know that I’m a horrible card sender. And I figured I should write up a little post about my dad because a) I love him, b) he’s awesome, and c) I wrote one for Mom on Mother’s Day. I can’t play favorites, you know.

  1. Dad put a roof over our heads. Dad worked away from home during the week, which had to be rough, but he did it to make sure his family was taken care of. Not only that, he put a lot of the finishing touches on our house to make sure we were warm and safe while he was gone.
  2. Dad broke the vacuum. This is one of my favorite memories of Dad. We still lived in our house in town, so Jacob and I were pretty little, and I think we were frantically cleaning the house because grandma and grandpa were coming over. Dad grabbed Mom’s prized Kenmore vacuum cleaner (now that I have one of my own, I understand why it’s so special) and started vacuuming the living room. Dad always knows how to make housework fun, and this time, he started chasing Jacob and I with the vacuum cleaner, pretending that it was a monster trying to eat our toes. While Jacob and I hopped on the couch to escape, Dad bounced the machine up and down making chomping noises and broke the vacuum cleaner. Dad was in trouble with Mom! That was the best part!
  3. Dad introduced me to some of my favorite movies. Young Frankenstein, Captain Horatio Hornblower, Operation Petticoat, Memphis Belle. I could list more, but the general theme of movies I love watching with my dad either involve war or Gregory Peck. And when I was a teenager, Dad figured out that certain movies could draw me to the couch for some guaranteed time with his daughter. Why else would a grown man watch Casper on a Sunday afternoon?
  4. Dad taught me how to hunt. OK, I don’t really hunt anymore, but Dad taught me how to shoot and clean a gun, how to sit in a deer stand very quietly until a deer comes along, how to gut a deer, and how to process deer meat. Maybe this isn’t so important in the grand scheme of things, but Dad and I got to spend a lot of time together reloading rifle ammo, shooting in the backyard, and hanging out during deer season. It’s still one of my favorite times of year.
  5. Dad introduced me to some of my favorite music. Songs by Juice Newton and Mary Chapin Carpenter came on the radio last week, and I was able to fully sing along with those songs namely because Dad was a believer in the repeat button on our Suburban tape deck. No song was safe from being repeated time after time if he liked it, and I have obtained many of those songs from iTunes so I can repeat them whenever I want, too.
  6. Dad is my resident car mechanic. Most dads are in some form or another, but my dad is a professional mechanic, and it takes an extra dose of patience to come home and work on your personal car (or your daughter’s) on the weekend. Because I live 100 miles from home now, I don’t turn to him as often as I used to, but in college, Dad made a handful of trips to Springfield to make repairs. And he’s always available for car repair advice when I have no idea what’s wrong with my car. And he put up with my near-cursing one early morning my sophomore of college when I repeatedly called him while attempting to change a vandalized tire.
  7. Dad gave me an appreciation for red meat. A few weeks ago, a friend of mine who’s only known me a year or so asked me if I was a meat eater. Uh, you could say that. Dad’s first stop on my way home from the hospital was not the convenience store for diapers; he took Mom and I to a favorite steak house. While I couldn’t appreciate a good steak then, he taught me to enjoy an excellent prime rib as early as he could afford it knowing that once I had a good steak, I wouldn’t turn back. And I didn’t.
  8. Dad taught me how to drive. I’m not sure how old I was when I had my first driving lesson, but I started off on the tractor sitting on Dad’s lap. Then I graduated to the John Deere mower where I had to mow our yard to perfection (without running over any garden hoses) before calling it finished. Dad gave me my first lesson in what would eventually be my truck when I was in middle school; I drove that truck until my senior year. Dad taught me to drive in the city and with semis on the road, too, and I am the confident driver I am today because of what he taught me.
  9. Dad always let me mooch on his Diet Coke. Somewhere there’s a picture of me as a toddler sitting in my dad’s lap, holding his bottle of Diet Coke with my feet and hands, and drinking from it. Up until I got married, if Dad had a Coke, I was mooching from it. (Dad, know that now I mooch from Chris.) No beverage was safe from my reach, and particularly vulnerable were the freshly-poured drinks sitting on the kitchen cabinet that would mysteriously “disappear” when Dad turned around to put away the soda bottle.
  10. Dad never missed a Friday night wrestling match. Dad worked away from home during the week, so his homecoming on Friday nights was pretty special. After his shower and before dinner, Jacob and I usually challenged Dad to a wrestling match in the dining room. There was a lot of tickling and jumping and hollering—and sometimes the cat got caught, too—but that’s how we knew the weekend had officially started.

Yep, my dad is pretty cool. I could go on, but this is a top-ten list. I love you, Dad!

 

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